Those who cannot remember the past are condemned to repeat it.~ George Santayana
The other day I received an email from an ex-girlfriend. It said,"Your birthday is fast approaching. I can't help but think of you. Sorry I hurt your feelings and I only hope that we are past that by now. I would love to celebrate your birthday, before-during or after. My number is still the same. I forgot yours."
Really? Are you fucking serious? My last words to her were, "BITCH lose my number and don't ever call me again. Forget you knew me and if you see me on the street look the other way."
You are not obligated to return any phone calls, texts, or emails to your ex. It is best not to start talking or hanging out with them lest you fall back into old habits. You start talking regularly, you are invited to lunch, dinner, weekend get -away, then spending the night at each others place, and soon you are back into a relationship.
Forgiveness has set me free. I am not mad nor angry. I have chosen not to revisit that closed chapter in my life. I respect myself and realized what I want and it does not include you. "Bitch"
Queen of Hearts